Nov
12
2009
And I still haven't named him

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Down the road…

behind all the construction materials…

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…is my boy.

I know him by heart…and he knows me.

He barks & whines when I walk past – jumping up & down to get my attention.

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But I can’t stop during the day…the construction workers are there…and presumably his owner.

So I whisper to him, ‘I’ll come back tonight – I promise’ as Maggie & I walk past.

I’ve kept that promise for 28 days.

28 days of secretly returning every night after the workers are gone to give him a full day’s worth of dog chow…to make sure there’s water in his bowl.

I wonder if they care about him. I wonder if they even notice the change in him.

I wonder when the day will come when I walk down the road & he’s no longer there…moved to the next construction site.

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This was taken the day we met. Thin, frail, lost & lonely.

[catch up on the day we met & our dilemma]

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28 days later & he’s a different dog altogether.

His coat is thick & full. His ribs are no longer showing. His eyes are bright & happy to see me.

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28 days & half a 20-pound bag of dog food. That’s all it took.

The first week was spent watching him wolf down his daily allotment of 6 cups in a flash.

The next week was spent splitting his time between eating then licking my hands or face.

And now?…Now we’re working on manners.

He’s so excited to see me every night. He desperately wants to play…wants to run.

He jumps & jumps & jumps up on me – I’ve got the muddy jeans & coat to prove it.

And a time or two I’ve come home with a muddy face from his kisses.

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So now we’re working on ’sit’…which lasts all of a split-second because he just can’t hold back his excitement.

But we’ll get there.

Nov
11
2009
And shifting priorities

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Living in Korea I’ve come to completely & truly recognize the value of a buck…and what I spend it on.

Life before Korea I would see something in the store & think, ‘Oh, that’s cute!’ And pick it up without a second thought (if I had the money).

Now, not so much.

Now everything has to do triple-duty. Buying a single pair of shoes means they need to be more than ‘cute’. They need to dress up; they need to dress down; they need to last; they need to keep my feet warm & dry during the Korean winter; they need to be chew-proof.

(Ok…maybe that last one is a stretch.)

But buying something I can’t buy in Korea means paying to ship it to Korea.

So when I do buy something online, it’s something important – something of real value – something I honestly can’t live without.

And it makes going to the mail room feel like Christmas – even though we already know what’s inside the box.

This box?…This box contains something of real value – something I can’t live without – and surprisingly it’s something that can’t do double-duty, let alone triple-duty. But it’s worth every penny.

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Williams-Sonoma Turkey Brine.

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Specifically the ‘Apple & Spices’ turkey brine.

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But just look at all the goodness inside!

Apples, juniper berries, lemon peel, star anise, garlic, bay leaves, onion….

The smell alone is divine….it’s intoxicating & almost narcotic.

And I can’t imagine ever cooking a Thanksgiving turkey again without it.

So yes…I spent good money on brine & have yet to find a pair of shoes.

Nov
09
2009
And you thought I was lying

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I’m still on the hunt for winter shoes….So what do you think of these?

Can’t you just see me sasshaying up & down the aisles of the commissary in these babies? Of course I would need to find the matching red python faux leather bag, studded pleather jacket & red sequined micro-miniskirt. But yeah…then I’d be stylin’.

Seriously. These are my choices?

I just don’t think I’m the demographic AAFES is buying for. Which begs the question,…

If they’re not buying for the average American woman, then who are they buying for?

Who would possibly buy those pumps & this perfume?

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Them.

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That’s who would buy that stuff – their target demographic.